Sunday, June 21, 2009

keep repeating the same OLD problem...

Ooo... getting busier.... next friday onwards.. i will be very very busy...
yesterday i went to meet janet for lunch and chit chat.. coz she is very upset over her driving lesson.. then i go console her.. after that.. i went to POSB branch to withdraw out my money from "my saving account" and deposit into maybank. the teller at maybank not familiar with their products.. argh.. damm it.. every Q that i ask her.. she have to check with her officer inside the office.. and they are not flexible in their service.. and she is very "BLUR".. this is not the first time i encountered this prob.. last time i went to Maybank at bedok.. they also very blur argh

sigh.. zq always make me not happy over the SAME problem.. he always ask me to do " house work" argh.. as u know... nowsdays.. the women is DIFFERENT from last time.. last time.. women used to be a full time HOUSEWIFE..soo their job scope is to COOK, CLEAN HOUSE and welcome their partner back home.. but now.. the women change.. we're working in a corporation.. fighting with all the man.. be competitive in the industry.. we wanted to earn more MONEY to improve on overall family INCOME... and not just depends on our MAN income to survive.. two person earning is better than one person right? life will be better and less stressful with more income.. the world have change. last time.. standard of living is LOW... now the standard of living is very very high... so we cannot just depends on one person income.. unless the one person is a CEO or big BOSS of a company.. then will be different story... therefore.. we're no different from MAN lor.. we working.. we feel tired... we facing problem.. and MAN cannot expect us to do all the house work right?? we cannot work in both day n night right? we are not machine.. MAN feel tired after work.. and we FEEL Tired tooo...
girl will appreciate if the guy willing to share of the workload.. good guy will not want their partner to be over tired...

now i having school holidays.. my temper very good.. coz no stress. soo i can always give in..
but once my school start.. with the project stress, test stress, exam stress... i dont know how would i react of this PROB keep popping out in my normal life....
i try to talk to zq.. but he seem like not taking this prob seriously.......he still want to bring out to making fun of me.. just like yesterday.. he make me wash his plate.. and my plate after the dinner.. which i already told him before hand.. i dont wan to WASH..... i dont mind washing for him if he come to my hse have dinner.. but i dont like doing it at other people house.. every house have their own house rule.... how i know which sponge for washing plate, cup, frying pan etc. i might use the wrong sponge to wash and this make thing WORSE right?????? but he seem like dont understand lor...
i already try talking to him and also show him black face le.. but he seem like dont get it..
i dont know what can i do to solve this problem le.
the last resort ... is avoid going to his house le.. but i know he is very tired after work.. that why i dont mind going to his house to accompany him on weekend.. soo avoid going to his hse might affect our relationship.. but this is the only solution which i can think of...... sigh....
i see how lor.. if really no choice.. this is the only way out le.....

today my driving very smooth.. yeahz...
yesterday zq told me he is quite flirt person and ask me must try to tie him down... i really really mind about this.. i dont know is he joking or serious.. but i choose to believe this is truth...
coz we're belong to same group of person..
i admit.. last time i used to be quite flirt... always get distracted easily... and i used to say the same thing to my ex bf too.. and they all fail to tie me down... soo i believe what he said.... sigh. life is really funny.. very disappointed..

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